In Response to: "Super Duper Nice People"

I just saw a movie that I know for a fact that most of you have seen before.

Well as the tittle says, this is a response to monkey's post and I only write this because my dear friend has a complicated time explaining things.

I'll go straight to the point.

There are two types of mean people:

• Mean people who do evil things
  
• Mean people who see evil things being done and do absolutely nothing about it

See, the whole boa constrictor deal is applied to only mean people.

We do things because it is in our nature but we also have the choice to do things. The things we do that are in our nature are things that we cannot help doing that most of the time end up hurting those who we don't want to hurt the most.


The fake boa deal is only ok because that is the kind of thing that we do because we have the choice to do those things. It is only then that the little critter can decide to risk it or run for it. It is within our instinct and experience that we make the choice.

So in conclusion, this is mostly about being nice or mean right?

Well there is no nice or mean, just people who make choices within their nature or instinct.

The Fear

You know how sometimes, you open your e-mail and you see a survey that all, or most of your contacts have filled out? Well for some reason, I've seen some questions repeated more than once. One specifically I have answered with the same word: solitude.

I've never really given thought to the matter much. In fact, I think solitude is not for man-kind, otherwise Eve would not have been created.

Well I think I've thought about the meaning of solitude enough unconciously and now I can truly say I am indeed afraid of being alone.

Alone...

As in by myself...

Nobody else...

Like in a dark room...

And yet again being alone is good in a way every once in a while. I have what I like to call me-time every once in a while (most of the time this is misunderstood as me being in some sort of depression which I'm not). There are times when I want to be alone, when its just me and the voice in my head (no psyco!). This is the time when I go into writing mode. I love this side of me because I use writing as a shield to my own emotions. Its as if my thoughts and ideas just ran down my hand and spilled out on the paper and they just stay there locked.

Well there is another side of solityde. I say this using my ddad's words only because they are true:

• "Women like to be independent, they are naturally more independent than men, but, women always look for dependence on men as if they liked to be tied down!"

Women...who understands us...?

I'm afraid of being 30 and not being married. Period. I'm just petrified by the thought of not being correspinded and dying in my home with 20 cats. I want to be independednt yet I seek that dependence on a man...

I feel like what the heck...

In fact I feel pathetic...

I hate to admit that women are weird...

I fall into that sterotype...

UGH!!!

Update

To all my readers:

There seemed to be a problem with my other blog (imsototallypink.blogspot.com) with the comment section.
After reviewing the options, and all kinds of attempts to fix this problem, the board of trustees decided to start a new blog.

To review the previous entries u may visit imsototallypink.blogspot.com but u won't be able to comment anything. Any new posts will be set up here. You will be able to enjoy the same stuff but with a different link to it : innerlooktothesmile.blogspot.com.

I apologize for any inconvenience this may have caused!

-Vale