So my friends now call my blog "The B" which I think is very cute. Also, someone get me a teacup pig. I will name him Fred and Fred will be cute and small and pink. I wanted to talk about love today.
On the real.
I've been in love once but unfortunately love turned out to be too much responsibility. I mean love is a big deal and it cannot possibly be healthy at a young age. In order for love to happen, there have to be a lot of factors involved (I am very uncomfortably positioned as I write this so I'll probably keep it short).
Every morning for the past three or so weeks I've been waking up feeling relieved and proud of myself. Many times I've stated that the most important thing for me right now is to pioneer and to finish school. Anything that gets in the way of that is a distraction. Boys included. However, I was watching this anime a few days ago and it was about some boys. Well, these boys asked this girl how they could get a girl to like them or what kind of guys girls liked or something like that. The girl first claimed to not know even though she herself was girl but then she told the boys that girls fall for boys that tell them that they like them if the boy has a pretty face. So I realize this sounds confusing so I'm going to show you the two cases:
*boy with pretty face*
I like you...
You do?
yes...
I do too...
*boy without pretty face*
I like you...
oh...really?
yes...do you like me?
I don't really know...but I don't think so...
I realize that this seems biased and that it leaves ugly boys at a. huge disadvantage but this is true. I know it sounds crazy but it is true. I mean, think about it. If Adam Levine went up to a girl and told her that he liked her as random as it seems, the girl would automatically fall for him. The only reason why this is true is because a girl would never talk to a guy that she doesn't find physically attractive in some way. Mind blowing right???
So if you are a boy out there and you are talking to a girl at night, feel privileged. The girl finds you attractive enough to stay awake and talk about idiocies. What about what is morally right to do though?? Mind you that this is not what I think, this is what I was taught to think based on true knowledge that is available to everyone. Any interaction between the opposite sexes that has no boundaries is bound to lead into very unwanted feelings and situations. I might sound like a hypocrite and I am not going to excuse myself. I have talked to guys past decent hours of the night. I have flirted before. I have provoked situations and feelings that I later regretted. I've also been hurt and used on the disadvantage that I put myself in that situation. Talking to guys is not wrong, its not immoral, and its not a sin. Of course its what you talk about and who you talk to that can potentially lead to trouble.
I'm a girl. Obviously. I know how girls think and I know their tricks. I know because I am a girl and I've used every card on the deck. I know where a girl is trying to get at by seeing the way she talks to the opposite sex and how she behaves. I know because I am a girl and I've seen it and done it and felt it and heard it and you can't fool me. NO sir, you can't. Although it is true that I tolerate a lot of things, it does not mean that I agree with them. I am just as guilty as every other girl.
I'm also guilty for falling for a guy that tells me he likes me (with a pretty face of course). And just as fast as I climbed on cloud nine, I jumped off. Guys are...guys. They are carnal. Girls...we are emotional. Unfortunately I am right when I wish I wasn't. That is why we are told to draw a line with the opposite sex. Well, I've decided to cave a trench, not a line. A line is much too easy to cross, but a trench takes effort and guys don't like to put effort into many things. I realize I am being general and blunt but it is what it is. As for right now I think I've said more than enough.
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